Welcome to the homepage of Anneli Rufus. This page is about my book Party of One: the Loners’ Manifesto. Here we are, having this rendezvous without having . party of one THE LONERS’ MANIFESTO = anneli rufus” rs os for being, To Mattheco, for believing To DM, a friend fiom and beyond eS To EK, a friend from. Yet in the press, in films, in folklore, and nearly everywhere one looks, In Party of One Anneli Rufus – a Prize-winning, critically acclaimed.

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Loners are often stereotyped as misanthropic, perverted, creepy, weird and at worst, potential serial killers. Time remaining — day s — hour s — minute s — second s. Sign up here to receive your FREE alerts. And the reason for the flaws is that it is over-passionate. Now we a For a self-proclaimed loner, Anneli Rufus seems to care an awful lot about what other people seem to think of herself and her fellow loners.

Rufus covers a broad range of topics. Dec 17, RunRachelRun rated it really liked it Shelves: May 20, Arnie Kozak rated it really liked it. And in her mind every creative person, be it an artist, musician, actor, etc. This may be my new favourite book ever. BPD is rucus challenging disorder that impacts people’s lives and relationships in countless ways. Crimes are generally committed by those who want to be part of the crowd, but due to mental illness, or poor social skills, etc, just aren’t accepted.

There were several parts that I could identify with but I felt she was a bit too harsh on those who are annelli loners, almost making them seem like the bad guys instead of trying to have them understand us if they were to parfy this book.


Jun 03, Jennifer rated it liked it Shelves: Basically she’s telling people to be proud of th I feel weird when I start a book and don’t finish it, even if I hate it.

Party of One: The Loners’ Manifesto by Anneli Rufus

Again, this doesn’t mean I’m anti-social – far from it – but I am very careful about where and how and how often I expend my energy to be in the presence of others for praty stretches. BPD affects a significant percentage of the population. This book is a must read for those who are loners, to see that it is in fact the world that is weird.

I couldn’t live as a Japanese person, for example, and be mentally healthy. That was the height of pleasure for me as a young one.


Overcomes us like a steamroller. Joiners, schmoozers, teamworkers, congregants and all those who play well with others scoop up the rewards. For a book whose purpose is to get people to understand and accept loners, it’s surprisingly black and white. Loners as a group deserve to be reassessed,to claim their rightful place, rather than be aneli as damaged goods that need to be “fixed.

Pesudoloners do not do well in isolation–it feeds their crazy. Good to find fellow ISTJs through blogging. Email Address never made public. Welcome to Night Vale: Keep me logged in on this computer. This book made me weary and irritable, and want to be alone forever.

That they believe that I am not into them, or that I am avoiding them. Acceptance and commitment therapy ACT anndli among the most remarkable developments in contemporary psychotherapy.

We all have this ability, though not always as much as we’d like. Indeed, people with OC are part considered highly successful by others, even as they suffer silently and alone. And I was listening to the moody songs of Jason Molinawhich my friend Claudio first recommended to me.


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Sure, I’ve met some of the type the book talks about: I’m a loner, and I got those genes from my dad, who is going to get this book in his stocking this year, as is one of my brothers. Apr 04, Kiri rated it really liked it. Even loners want to find “kindred souls”, to be validated for their feelings, and to enjoy others’ lone experiences from a respectable distance. Mar 15, elizabeth rated it liked it Shelves: But most are reasonable people who, though they may not entirely grasp the concept themselves, will respect an introvert’s desire for privacy and solitude.

So when I saw the title: No, not their taste in music. I was hiding behind big dark sunglasses and a wide-brimmed hat. Hadyn Go to your “to read” bookshelf. And yet-perhaps due to the high value our society places on the capacity to delay gratification and inhibit public displays of destructive emotions and impulses-problems linked with OC have received little attention or been misunderstood. Here, at last, is a book that refutes and rejects such frantic terms of socializing.

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